Movie Screening
“Masculinity now includes femininity as a part of it too- each woman is almost as masculine as she is feminine, and each man is almost as feminine as he is masculine. We must look at masculinity in this complete, wholesome manner”, said the renowned filmmakers, Iram and Reshma, who Pathways was honored to have as judges for the film making competition in Resonance 2015. The competition started with a roomful of buzzing filmmakers, none prepared for what a powerful message each movie would convey. A recurring theme, nearly every film talked about how suppressed men feel by standards and society coerced upon them- demanding them to be self-reliant, driven, and brave when they’re scared and emotionally stoic.
Eager to define “masculinity redefined”, as termed by The Shri Ram School, Aravali, the films posed questions of whether masculinity is defined by how one looks or thinks, whether it is created biologically or socially and whether masculinity is seen in a man who is physically strong or emotionally strong. Should men have to don masks every morning, or be free to be who they are? We say society is evolving, but is it really? Interestingly, the character of Superman has grown to be more muscled and is the epitome of a “real” man, as stated by Shiv Nadar. Pathways Gurgaon, too, went a step further, analyzing why is it that men feel the need to act aggressively and they came to the conclusion that it is because they feel it is the only way society allows them to express emotion.
Each movie also enthusiastically encouraged rights of men; Pathways Gurgaon talked about allowing men’s “tears to flow freely”, other films urged men to be themselves- to be “the man”, the non stereotypical one that allows men to be themselves rather than “that man”, who is the stereotypical “real” man. Each and every film deeply explored the idea of masculinity, leaving the students with an ample amount of thought to mull over.